While decorating our Christmas tree Tuesday night, I discovered an ornament from days of yore! This sparkly gem, which I had completely forgotten about, is a picture of my first horse Daytona. He was a head-strong Quarter Horse gelding, too young for a teenager with little experience in the ways of horse training.

my first horse

On a good day he would move along with moderate enthusiasm as we explored the acres of trails and forest preserve adjacent to the big field that was his home 24/7. On a bad day he would buck when I cued him to canter. I was intimidated by his antics, therefore he knew I would back down and stick to trotting. That meant less work from him–smart gelding.

Thankfully, a skilled horsewoman my mom met at the beauty shop offered to help me and I moved my stinker of a steed to her backyard barn. Daytona shaped up with more structure in his life and I grew wiser, not just from learning through trial and error, but from modeling what I did after my new mentor who clearly knew what she was doing.

During college (through a family I babysat for) I met a gen-u-ine horse trainer who not only helped smooth out my backyard equitation, but helped me progress to my show horse DC. She even introduced me to the future owner of Daytona.

As I studied in Spain the summer after I graduated from college, Daytona was leased, doted on, ridden, adored by a kind woman who then later bought him. It was love.

Flash forward many years. I lost track of Daytona and his owner. About two years ago I had this urge to reach out to his owner. I didn’t think Daytona would still be alive, but you never know. I wanted to connect to tell her that I had moved to California, gotten married, became a teacher, and lost DC. I found an old address in Wisconsin and mailed a letter. I never heard back. I assumed she had possibly just lost Daytona and it might be too hard to write about.

Thanks to this blog, I know the rest of the story! Yesterday I received an email that started, “Do you remember me? I purchased Daytona from you? He was a great horse. . .”

My letter was mailed to Wisconsin, but the owner had moved several years before that to Texas! The mystery was solved.

I found out yesterday that Daytona lived to be 25 and was adored until the end.  I couldn’t have asked for a happier conclusion for my first horse.

I sent an email with this Christmas ornament photo attached to my first horse’s true love.

I hope I hear back from her again.

Do tell: Have you, or would you ever try to track down a former pet or horse (or boyfriend)? 

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14 Comments

  1. Noelle Greene December 4, 2014 at 2:15 pm - Reply

    Oh Susan! That’s cool!! I’m glad to hear it… Noelle

  2. Lauren December 4, 2014 at 2:35 pm - Reply

    So cool! I know where my former heart horse is, but the other two I sold I have no idea. One is surely dead by now, and the other just totally vanished :/

  3. Courtney December 4, 2014 at 2:56 pm - Reply

    That’s so wonderful you heard from her! I gave a horse up at one point, and later on contacted her new owner and got her back. It made me so happy 🙂

    • Susan Friedland-Smith December 4, 2014 at 3:01 pm - Reply

      I’ve heard that kind of story too. A friend at my barn sold or gave a horse away; found out later that the woman who was the new owner had fallen on hard times and the horse was super skinny. My friend went to pick him up since the new owner never had a proper bill of sale. The horse loaded right up on the trailer like, “Take me home!” He now lives across the aisle from Knight.

  4. crhinc December 4, 2014 at 5:50 pm - Reply

    Great story about DC, Susan.

  5. Midwestern Plant Girl December 4, 2014 at 8:00 pm - Reply

    Animals I can understand checking on them. Exboyfriends or exfriends… Ooh, no never. I figure is over its over. I don’t even face book in that capacity. Yes, my blog is hooked, but that is as much action as the page gets!

    • Susan Friedland-Smith December 7, 2014 at 9:07 pm - Reply

      You have a very strong will. I have to admit my curiosity sometimes gets the best of me. I have been known to look up people from my past.

  6. emma December 5, 2014 at 6:36 am - Reply

    what an awesome story – and so cool that Daytona’s owner found you! nice story about DC too.

    • Susan Friedland-Smith December 7, 2014 at 9:09 pm - Reply

      Thank you for reading, Emma. I just got ANOTHER email from Daytona’s owner. I am so glad I’m blogging (for many reasons), but this is probably the best part–connecting with old and new friends. 🙂

  7. heartofhope10 December 5, 2014 at 11:05 am - Reply

    I’ve been so lucky to be able to watch both my old lease horses grow old with their riders after me.

  8. prior December 9, 2014 at 10:24 pm - Reply

    you know…. this post is another example of why we kept our ornaments from over the years – 🙂 – the memories and the joy – and Daytona looks beautiful 🙂 <3

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